9 May 04
Looking Within
When I posted my piece last week about Ron the Deranged and the American military, I didn’t yet know that some of the photographs of torture in prisons in Iraq that have now been spread around the world featured women. Women doing shocking things—things that are shocking for any human to do but especially shocking because they’re women.
DocRoc at WriteOutLoud has wondered about this in an open letter to Tim O’Brian. Of the many people I’ve spoken with and written to this week, nobody has been able to come up with any kind of explanation at all. We’re all dumbstruck.
Not one normally to find myself without an opinion, I am going to dare to do something challenged by Burningbird (thanks Alembic): I’m going to express UNCERTAINTY.
Here’s the most frightening thing I think I’ve ever said.
I’m not sure-I’m not sure that, given the same circumstances, the same boredom, the same bitterness, the same mix of factors-I would categorically not have been that woman with that leash in her hand.
Which is, I’ve decided, the most compelling reason we shouldn’t go to war. People don’t want to go to war because they don’t want to get killed; others don’t want to kill. But what I think we should be most afraid of is becoming Lynndie England.
As Chris Hedges, author of War is a Force That Gives Us Meaning, puts it: “the line that divides us, who would like to see ourselves as civilized and compassionate, from such communal barbarity is razor-thin.”
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One thing that bothers me a lot about the west is this PC assumption that women are somehow immune to the temptations and cruelties that men are always accused of. Most women just simply do not encounter the environments that Lynndie England was immersed in and therefore probably don’t develop the “freedom” to let out their demons. I think anyone who is subjected to the awfulness of human cruelty and sadism has the potential to exercise the same demons. Women are human, not saints. If a person can feel hate, then the demons are there, man or woman. Myself included. The trick is if you can overcome the demons. Perhaps women are in general better at this than men, perhaps because society nearly always requires them to be better at it, whereas men are nearly always encouraged to carry at least a vestige of brutishness. If women were drafted into armies in the same proportion as men, I wonder what would happen then?
Sorry to Trouble…
Uh…
How to say?.. Males and Females are relatively equal in their ABILITY and USE of causing cruelties.
Cruelties like torture.. Women, over the eons, have become especially adept at emotional and psychological torture. Going back to the point of the original post, that is not intended to (nor does it) imply that MOST women are vicious, cunning manipulators with NO other concern other than themselves, their own self-protection, the protection of their kids and their Women “friends”.
Nup. Nor, as I “said” at JOHO (although that post could get axed), are the people claiming to be like Ghandi anything close to actually BEING like Ghandi, no matter how civil the words they use to spout their own particular forms of hatred.