28 July 04
Apologizing to Cats
Being part English condemns you to apologize for things for which an apology is totally inappropriate, as in, “Sorry, do you mind if I just open the window?”-and must get thoroughly tedious after the third or fourth round. Unfortunately I find myself apologizing to kittens-if THEY get underfoot, if THEY are finicky about their food, if THEY are (much worse) finicky about their litter.
But they’re going to have to put up with it, I’m afraid. Pending approval from the landlord, we’ve decided to keep both Diego and Charlie. We’re out for too much of the time for one cat to be in here, cooped up, by himself and not start becoming neurotic. At least this way they’ll have each other to play with and make mayhem with.
For someone who isn’t a “cat person,” I’ve done a lot of cat stuff in the last few weeks. It’s been entertaining and far more fun than I’d ever have believed. And-yes-sorry to all of you who are bored out of your minds by all this kitten-blogging.
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i wish the same happens here! ;-) hugs!
The apology thing is really a spectrum which has an English section on it. Americans, in their forthrightness, often appear to be at the other end. It can also be a gender thing with women apologising more than men. When I am feeling crap about myself I go through phases of saying sorry to the bed if I knock into it and have to consciously try to get myself out of Extreme Apology Syndrome!